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Title: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Trafalgar on July 23, 2016, 01:39:48
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Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Nova on July 23, 2016, 01:45:01
Sucks to hear that man.
Glad you feel better now though, after writing that.
Shame the lady felt the need to do such thing.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: SpeakingRain on July 23, 2016, 01:47:28
WTF, if I was there I would of slapped the shit out of her for you. That's horrible.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Trafalgar on July 23, 2016, 02:09:39
Thanks to you two for the positive feedback! :D
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Kings_Head on July 23, 2016, 02:21:17
Damn bro that sucks a lot, you should've shot back and humiliated her twice as hard bro
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Zama on July 23, 2016, 02:22:13
You should've called her out, she had no right saying that like who is she to do that. Things like that get me worked up so I can only imagine how frustrating that must've been for you.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Trafalgar on July 23, 2016, 03:27:33
Damn bro that sucks a lot, you should've shot back and humiliated her twice as hard bro
You should've called her out, she had no right saying that like who is she to do that. Things like that get me worked up so I can only imagine how frustrating that must've been for you.

I honestly couldn't handle the embarresment. I just rushed out without saying anything. Im a reeeeeaaaalllllyyyy shy person, but with my luck I get a "disability" that forces me to be open.
-~-
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: waly206 on July 23, 2016, 03:37:42
I wanted to make this thread to not only get stuff off of my chest, but allow others to blow off steam too, or maybe help someone out with their problems.

I had to blow off some steam with this because I was publically humiliated today in a restaurant. I had been doing a few tics, (thats what the different things I do are called), and a few people had been looking at me funny, as usual. Then some lady asked me if I was alright, and I told her about my condition. She then announced to the entire restaurant, as she had noticed the looks too, that I was ”RETARDED“ , and that nobody should be bothered. Ive never been so humiliated and degraded.

Anyway, I feel better after writing this. If you read it all, thanks and good on ya. :)

Well that lady is a total dick and shame on her

Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: taigakun on July 23, 2016, 05:39:41
I wanted to make this thread to not only get stuff off of my chest, but allow others to blow off steam too, or maybe help someone out with their problems.

I want to get off the burden of hiding the fact that I have Tourette's Syndrome. Tourette's is a neurological brain disorder that causes the brain to send fluxated patterns to the sufferer, to do different, irrepressable, actions, sounds, words, etc. This is the condition famous for people who swear uncontrollably. Thats known as copralalia, and very few people with tourette's have it. I am not one of them, I don't shout obsceneties or anything like that. I mainly suffer from arm jolting, throat clearing, eye rolling, this weird sniffling thing, etc. I am in no way incapable of doing anything because of this.

I had to blow off some steam with this because I was publically humiliated today in a restaurant. I had been doing a few tics, (thats what the different things I do are called), and a few people had been looking at me funny, as usual. Then some lady asked me if I was alright, and I told her about my condition. She then announced to the entire restaurant, as she had noticed the looks too, that I was ”RETARDED“ , and that nobody should be bothered. Ive never been so humiliated and degraded.

Anyway, I feel better after writing this. If you read it all, thanks and good on ya. :)
Only illiterates with low self-esteem do that to feel better about themselves(for some fucking reason). Don't worry yourself about what a dumb lady thinks about you. And you are the real MVP man, there will always be people who try to make you feel less about yourself. Fuck em and live your life.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Toratsume Nyshn on July 23, 2016, 05:53:34
Why would someone just annouce out loud in the public some shit things about anyone and that too a stranger!!
Anyone was being a  RETARD
it was tha fafo lady...
( I feel ashamed of her being a fellow human being and I apologize on her behalf maaan :) )
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Kai on July 23, 2016, 10:52:45
Don't look back on it and try to shut it off from your mind, it will make you feel better :)

Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Konohuro on July 23, 2016, 11:23:30
I think it's better for you if you don't answer to those people doing such things to you. People are stupid, but we shouldn't judge them. This life always turns back to you what you have done in the past. By answering back to her you only become her. Let her do what she thinks she has to do, but you should remain calm, ignore her inferiority and don't get affected by what happens because her opinion doesn't matter. And if others start laughing, then they are also shitty people, so why would their opinion matter. However, if someone understands you, and is respectful to you, then that somebody has a superior mind, those people really worth your attention, and only their opinion should matter.

Answering to hate with hate will only generate hate. But instead, why wouldn't you answer with love to hate, even if that person doesn't deserve it, but by doing so, you may turn that person in someone who deserves it. Therefore, turn that hate into love. This will probably change the mind of that person who chose hate and turn it into love, making her/him into a person that would deserve it, thus you would turn that person into something greater then her/his initial statute/level.

Filther the value of people.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: misi4444 on July 23, 2016, 11:32:56
When I meet with people like that woman, I just look down on them and feel pity for them. When someone acts that way to you, then you are the superior and the other one just a salty hag, who won't achieve anything in life. People, always come with equality, but if you want to deal with such struggles, the best if you simply see less in people like that woman.

She had chance to control her behaviour, yet failed to do so. You have right to feel  yourself more than her. Such things happen in world, but not because of neurological disorder, but because of the most classical reason. People tend to be assholes, and these would pick on anyone when they get a chance. If you really want to deal with these struggles, you have to pity these people, so you realize you are more. Friends and family matter only, others can go to hell with their opinions.

Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Mars on July 23, 2016, 16:44:38
Fuck Traf, you're a really strong guy.
No one cares what disability you have here, we may be toxic but most of us aren't assholes.

Much love bro <3
she's a cunt
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: json243 on July 23, 2016, 17:14:10
Fuck that hoe. She needs to keep to herself and just shut up. Im sorry you had to go through that. I don't know you well but I've heard your a great guy, so show the world what you got!
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Tsunayoshi on July 23, 2016, 18:19:10
Ngl, I'm an asshole towards some people, but never against people who can't help something, what that woman has done is beyond retarded, and to tell the truth I can't really believe it.

I'm not gonna lie, even if I had a sickness, be it anything, if I have anything I can use, be it a hand or foot, I'd literally beat up that woman. Not gonna lie mate, most people would react different to that kind of situation, how you handled it is correct and matured.

The truth of the matter is, people should give you kindness or love for being different, instead they respond that way, it's fucked up and I swear if I had been there, I'd shut that bitch up.

Stand tall m8, I know you can do it.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Vreg on July 23, 2016, 18:42:16
Don't let yourself be upset by the likes of a low class human.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Trafalgar on July 23, 2016, 20:45:35
I honestly don't even know how to reply to these. Im not a super emotional guy, but this made me incredibly happy, reading all of these. Ive been accused of faking it, especially by classmates. But Im honestly 100% sure none of you even gave that a thought. And for that I am greatful.

Thank you all so much, Ive read every comment, most of them ive read a few times.

Greatful to be apart of such an awesome community. :)
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: taigakun on July 23, 2016, 22:18:37
I honestly don't even know how to reply to these. Im not a super emotional guy, but this made me incredibly happy, reading all of these. Ive been accused of faking it, especially by classmates. But Im honestly 100% sure none of you even gave that a thought. And for that I am greatful.

Thank you all so much, Ive read every comment, most of them ive read a few times.

Greatful to be apart of such an awesome community. :)
<3
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: SpeakingRain on July 23, 2016, 22:48:52
I honestly don't even know how to reply to these. Im not a super emotional guy, but this made me incredibly happy, reading all of these. Ive been accused of faking it, especially by classmates. But Im honestly 100% sure none of you even gave that a thought. And for that I am greatful.

Thank you all so much, Ive read every comment, most of them ive read a few times.

Greatful to be apart of such an awesome community. :)

Virtual hugz!
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Shivraj on July 24, 2016, 14:09:31
Just read up on Tourette's Syndrome after reading your post, sucks you were unlucky enough to get it :/.

Probably should just shrug off what the woman said, (I know it's been said countless times before >.>)might be hard to do, yes, and I shouldn't tell you to do something I wouldn't, but it would be better to not hold on to it since it doesn't do you any good. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: RAZOR7619 on July 24, 2016, 14:53:30
That women is shitty human and she should be ashamed not you, you did't do anything wrong.
Try not to worry what people like this women say about you.
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Trafalgar on July 24, 2016, 16:37:59
Just read up on Tourette's Syndrome after reading your post, sucks you were unlucky enough to get it :/.

Probably should just shrug off what the woman said, (I know it's been said countless times before >.>)might be hard to do, yes, and I shouldn't tell you to do something I wouldn't, but it would be better to not hold on to it since it doesn't do you any good. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯



Ive gotten over it already. Makes me a bt irratated when I think about it, but honestly thanks to all of these posts, I was able to recover from this quickly. :D
Title: Re: Struggles ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ
Post by: Whatasnipe on July 25, 2016, 01:45:22
Glad you could overcome it. I myself hate being the center of attention, so I can understand your embarrassment. I Just hope you know now that you're worth more than that, Traf